Teaching Players to Deal with Failure

Baseball is the most difficult sport for any athlete to master. A player can do everything right while playing the game of baseball and still walk away a failure. A pitcher can throw the perfect pitch to the perfect location and give up a big home run. A hitter can make the perfect swing on a pitch and still strike out. Baseball is the one sport where even the best players fail 66% of the time and this statistic holds true from tee-ball all the way up to Major League Baseball level.  So why let your child play a sport where they are going to fail more than they succeed? I offer this quote as a reason.

“Success is not built on success. It’s built on failure. It’s built on frustration. Sometimes it’s built on catastrophe.”

-Sumner Redstone

This quote illustrates why it is important to allow our children to play a sport where they will fail twice as much as they will succeed. Through the failures that the children endure on the baseball field, they will learn how to deal with the emotions that come with failure. Baseball teaches children many valuable lessons that they will carry off of the diamond and into life, but the ability to deal with failure may be one of the most valuable lessons that they learn. Children will learn teamwork, hard work and  sportsmanship while playing baseball, but the lesson of failure on the baseball might be the lesson that helps the child become the most successful in life.

in his article “What Baseball Players Know About Life (Why 0-For-20 Isn’t a Bad Thing)” Logan Gelbrich discusses all the reasons that baseball prepares players for success in life through failure.  He states, “As a hitter, to master the game of baseball means to have success just thirty percent of the time. Immediately, there is an unavoidable battle with success and failure built right into the foundation of the game. On top of that, baseball is an experiential sport. To master it is to be very specialized. Sure, athleticism helps, but even I will admit one need not be a great athlete to be a great baseball player. Running track or playing soccer, for example, means less for one’s ability to have success in baseball than nearly any sport. As they say about athletes trying to learn baseball, “You can’t steal first base.”

Children will learn on the baseball field how to deal with failure and how to handle the emotions that come from not being successful all of the time, so that they can grow from the experience. The experience will translate in to the child being able to accept failure in other areas of life without giving up or being scared of failure, because many people do not even try in life out of fear of failure. Baseball gives the children the ability to overcome the fear of failure and truly reach for their dreams in life.

“Failure teaches us more than success”

Steve Jobs

And that is why we allow our children to play a sport where they will fail more than they will ever succeed.

 

Here is the New Kingsbridge Little League Logo

 

Kingsbridge Little League has a new Logo.

 

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What do you think? How much do you love it?

 

 

 

 

Teaching Players the Right Message

Thousands of children participate in youth sports every year and the sport or sports that they choose range from Acrobatics to Yoga  (There is no sport that starts with the letter z, at least not played in America to my knowledge). Children play sports for a variety of reasons as well. They could play for exercise, to socialize, or just good old fashion fun.

It does not matter what sport or sports that the child chooses to participate in, or the reason that they chose to participate at all. What matters is what the child takes away from the sport at the end of the season. Though Many children will never play sports past the little league level, they can learn valuable lessons and skills that will last them a lifetime. Sports teach children life skills like teamwork, dedication, sacrifice, how to recover from failure and too many others to name here. All of the skills that the children learn through sports can be taught by focusing on making sure that they learn sportsmanship.

Sportsmanship is defined by Merriam-Webster as:  conduct (as fairness, respect for one’s opponent, and graciousness in winning or losing) becoming to one participating in a sport. This is a life lesson and a skill that will serve children well in all aspect of their lives whether on the playing field, classroom or on the job.

Parents and coaches are responsible for ensuring that players learn sportsmanship when participating in youth athletics because no one will remember the score of a game that they played when they when they were in youth athletics and little league championships do not go on a resume. Focusing on sportsmanship will ensure that the child takes something away from the game that can be applied to other areas of life. Sportsmanship is a people skill that will help the child  become a well-rounded productive citizen.

Michael Clarke had a nice article about teaching sportsmanship at his site active.com

 

 

The Play at Second

 

LOS ANGELES, CA - OCTOBER 10: Ruben Tejada #11 of the New York Mets is hit by a slide by Chase Utley #26 of the Los Angeles Dodgers in the seventh inning in an attempt to turn a double play in game two of the National League Division Series at Dodger Stadium on October 10, 2015 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Sean M. Haffey/Getty Images)
LOS ANGELES, CA – OCTOBER 10: Ruben Tejada #11 of the New York Mets is hit by a slide by Chase Utley #26 of the Los Angeles Dodgers in the seventh inning in an attempt to turn a double play in game two of the National League Division Series at Dodger Stadium on October 10, 2015 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Sean M. Haffey/Getty Images)

Cal Ripken may be right about the slide, but I know Met fans do not want to hear that.

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